Who is a Man? What needs to be said!

wife_beats_husbandWho is a Man?

Man is a creation of God who learns sacrifice and compromise right from his childhood:
– He sacrifices his chocolate/candy for his sister.
– He sacrifices his dreams by choosing a career path to satisfy his parents.
– He spends all his pocket money to buy gift for his girlfriend.
– He spends all his youth earning for his wife and children.
– He takes out a loan to create a future for himself and spends the rest of his life paying back the loan.
– He spends the rest of his life being reprimanded by his wife, mother and his boss.
– All his life, his wife, mother, mother-in-law and his boss try to control him.
– All his life is spent for others.

And the poor man:
– if he raises his hand against his wife, he is labeled shameless, wife beater, etc
– if he takes wife’s abuse, he is labeled timid.
– if he sees his wife with another man and inquires, he is labeled doubting.
– if he keeps quite, he is labeled coward.
– if he stays out of home mostly, he is labeled tramp, a vagabond.
– if he stays at home, he is labeled worthless.
– if he scolds his children, he is labeled cruel.
– if he does not, he is labeled negligent or careless.
– if he stops his wife from taking a job, he is labeled male-chauvinist.
– if he lets his wife take up a job, he is labeled as useless, dependent on his wife’s income.
– if he obeys his mother, he is labeled mother’s boy.
– if he obeys to his wife, he is labeled henpecked-husband.

Despite spending most of his life in sacrifice, compromise and struggle, he does not want anything for himself.

Not to mention that in most countries the law is biased towards women, and there is no law to protect men against domestic violence and abuse by women.

Man – He may be a male, a son, a brother, a boy-friend, a father, a husband and/or a son-in-law, but his life is usually filled with challenges and struggles. That is why, always respect a man.

It’s time Men clear their position and get the respect they deserve.

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Peace

anthneeh gomes

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The American Dream

The American dream (or any man made material dream in any country) is a conditioned desire programmed into our life system by the force which does not want us to realize our true nature. The true reason why the force wants you to be ignorant of your higher and glorious self is for you to delve and recognize.

The concept of money was introduced and a material dream was conditioned in your mind. The force supplys you the money you need to live that dream with a condition that your return that supply of money back to the force with interest. This way one is constantly in the debt with the force. The force has set the dream in such a way that one is constantly spending his/her time earning money in order to return it to the force. This way you are tied to the hamster wheel and you run and run and run the wheel in order to sustain your material dream. Absorbed and inundated by this conditioned need to live a labeled material dream, our programmed mind keeps us away from aspiring and achieving our true higher self.

Being in our higher self brings us to a realization that the material world is like an eternal flowing river. At any time we can dip into this river and drink the thirst quenching water we need for our sustenance. Everything in the material world is flowing through us, just as long we allow it to flow. But we have a tendency to want it all of it for ourselves. This stagnation prevents the flow and we ourselves become an obstacle to our spiritual growth. This tendency stems from one of the seeds of desire taking birth from the 4 primitive fountains of food, sex, sleep & self-preservation. These are the 4 primal desires in the material world. Wealth, which is a collection of the means to satisfy the 4 primal desires, is a super desire encompassing all the 4 primal desires. The idea of  gathering material wealth is sold to us in exchange for our ignorance to our higher real self.

Time has come to shake the dust off, break loose the chains and move out of the darkness into the shift. A shift that is already in happening and contantly accelerating. 

Wake up! Time is now!

Peace

anthoni